have you ever heard this quote?
"everything has been figured out, except how to live."
i forget who said this, but i do think that maybe we should be taught about how to live...especially about how we doing our things in present without dwell on our past.
i know maybe it sounds lame, but really, i cant help to thought and wondered about my past like, anytime!
i know, i know, it's the past. it's unchangeable. and all you gotta do is move on. yes, been heard about that too.
but how we know if the past is unchangeable or not?how can we be so sure about that?what if we can change the end of our story?isn't our story is still transpires until now?
and how come we really move on from someone that we loved?how can we lose our feelings just like that?what if the feeling, instead of fade away, remains grow and grow everyday?
am i stupid or retarded to have this feeling grow?am i different from anyone else?
fuh, maybe the cliche answer or the only one answer about my questions is..TIME. time will tell. time always tell. i just have to wait, haven't i?
There is other answer... i guess... cause if the quote is "everything has been figured out, except how to live", than all u have to do is focus on "everything has been figure out"... see live as estuary... every little peaces is a part of something bigger... if u focus on doing the best in everything that you've been figure out, than your live is gona be just fine...
ReplyDeleteabout the past... it's unchangeable indeed... i pretty sure everyone else feel the same... but in the other hand, if you're talking about change the end of your story, that i couldn't agree more... but remember, u have to know the line between something still can be change, and something are final... cause most people spending time and energy in the present fretting over things are final... remember, "you may hate a thing although is good for u, and love thing although it's bad for u, God knows, but you don't - Albaqarah 216"...
About your feeling... to some one (ciiee :p)... you're absolutely right... people don't lose their feeling... But they transfer it to some one who deserve more... you do it, and do it all over again until u finally found the right person who deserve the most, and spend your live with them (cit cit cuiitt) hehehe.... in some case, people found that they ex is the one... but please, don't punish your self to hard for some one who don't feel the way you're...
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